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Thais y Demel

16th May 2026

Finca Montealvar

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You’ve been officially invited to be part of the most beautiful rollo bollo of 2026.

rollo bollo más bonito de 2026.

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Get ready for a wedding with two brides, little protocol, a few tears (probably ours) and plenty of laughs in a monastery turned into a golf house (we’ve never held a club in our lives — nor played golf, for that matter).

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From match to marriage

We could say it was love at first sight… but in reality it was more of a Tinder “match” and let’s-see-what-happens.

And it happened.

There was a first date to watch a film about a lesbian nun (“we’ll do it and then see” became our mantra, though not for what you’re thinking, you naughty thing).
There were nights at –5º telling each other our life stories in a frozen car.
There were ambushes where we had to lose our shyness with the families.
There were a couple of “I’m not looking for anything serious, alright?”.
There were photo albums with our story, very 2005-style.
There were concerts in posh places and late-night dinners at Burger King.
There were first times, living together, holidays, trips and a little Lukito.
It even turned out that we’d lived our whole lives in the same neighbourhood without knowing it.
There were losses, arguments, operations and many talks about us (like good lesbians).
And at some point in the midst of all that, we realised we wanted something more. That everything that had happened had made us a family. A family we decided to formalise with lots of love and very little money. And that’s why you’re here, reading this. We’re not promising a fairy tale. Because love never is.

We promise a wedding with real love.

with emotions, laughs, and the occasional “bloody hell, how did we get here?”.

And here we are. Ready to say yes, in front of you.

Two brides. Two proposals. Right?

Thais, Fuerteventura and donkeys.

Thais chose Fuerteventura, the place of their first trip together and where they always go to reconnect. A dream AirBnB among mountains, endless sky, an infinity pool and the song of two neighbour donkeys who woke them up at 5 in the morning.

In true intense-Thais fashion, she went through a thousand shops until she found the perfect ring. Then went through another thousand until she found the perfect size. She chose an AirBnB that later turned out to be one of Demel’s favourites in the “for when we’re rich” section.

She got the ring, hid it, and on the last blank page of the photo album she’d made to celebrate their first anniversary, she wrote her a poem and prepared a romantic playlist. And it was there, in Fuerteventura, in front of all that volcanic landscape, with their song playing in the background, that she gave her the album and, when Demel finished reading the poem aloud, she pulled out the ring. And yes, there were tears.

Thais’s tears, because Demel was in shock and just kept laughing. But there was a yes, plenty of kisses, a sky full of stars and the two donkeys as their first witnesses.

Demel, songs and a horse mask.

Demel did the re-proposal Thais-style: with plenty of giggles. She discovered that dinosaurs come in sizes when she bought one of those inflatable costumes that didn’t fit her, so she swapped it for a horse mask.

She conspired with her sister to take her to the romantic AirBnB with a pool she’d booked in a little village in Guadalajara, wrote some Love Actually-style signs and recorded a personalised song with their story. Basically, every cliché in a single proposal.

She set everything up and Thais arrived by surprise. When she opened the door and saw Demel standing there in the middle of the AirBnB’s living room wearing a horse mask and holding signs, Thais cried. From laughter and from love. Because she had planned everything she knew Thais wanted: dinosaurs, horses, giggles, romance and plenty of kisses. Oh! And a ring that gave her more than one headache to get, but one she knew was worth it because it’s Thais in ring form.

Conclusion

One proposed with poetry. The other with a horse. And that’s why this wedding is going to have a bit of everything.

Wedding details

The Wedding

  • Date: 16 May 2026
  • Time: 18:00
  • Venue: Finca Montealvar
  • Address: Monasterio de Alcohete s/n, 19139, Guadalajara

Approximate wedding schedule

  • 18:00 – Guest arrival and lemonade
  • 18:30 – Ceremony and two “I do’s”
  • 19:15 – Cocktail
  • 21:00 – Dinner
  • 23:15 – Open bar and dancing

And until our little bodies, our feet or our willpower give out.

Important: Come with plenty of time!

The monastery space is limited — if you arrive late, you might miss the “I do’s.”

A monastery turned into a golf course?

Montealvar is a 16th-century monastery in the heart of the Valdenazar forest that someone, at some point, decided to turn into a golf course. Do we like golf? No. Do we know how to play? Also no. But the place is intimate and has the perfect balance between history and modern vibes. And the most golf-related thing you’ll find are a few photos and maybe a lost golfer wandering into the cocktail. If you see one, offer them a croqueta on our behalf.

Frequently Asked Questions

How to get there?
¿Dónde dormir?

⚠ Careful! Allergic bride ⚠

Many of you already know this and will have seen it on the invitation, but we want to remind you that Thais is extremely allergic to many scents, perfumes and vapes. Allergic as in run-to-the-hospital. And since we don’t want to kick off the marriage in A&E…

We kindly ask you:

🚫 Don’t wear perfume or cologne that day
🚫 Don’t bring flavoured/scented vapes

But don’t worry — if you’re someone who needs cologne to feel like a person, we’ll have perfumes on site that don’t kill Thais.
To make sure Demel doesn’t become a widow on the very day she gets married, Thais might swap kisses for hugs or a friendly fist bump. It’s not a lack of affection; it’s pure survival instinct.

Thank you for taking care of us on this day ♥️

If this is your first two-women wedding, there are a few rules you should keep in mind: shirts must be lumberjack-style. If you’re a dress person, it must be covered in sequins.

Just kidding.

There’s no strict dress code. No compulsory ties, dress lengths or heels — the only banned colour is white. But don’t show up in a tracksuit, darling. We want you to be you, but the prettiest, best-version-of-you.

In summary:

❌ White is a NO. There are already two brides — we don’t want any confusion about a third.
✔️ Glitter, feathers, sequins and a bit of drama: yes, please
✔️ Converse welcome

If you need ideas, think: “if I bump into an ex, they’ll regret everything.” Let’s remember we’ll be in Guadalajara, not Madrid. Here you really might bump into your ex.

If you need accommodation, please indicate it in the confirmation form and we’ll give you the details on how to book.

No. No rice, no confetti, no loose glitter. There’ll be a little something there for you to throw at us. Otherwise, something that looks great in photos are €500 notes — you can throw those at us.
Yes, there’s an open bar. And a DJ. And probably some questionable choreography.
If they’ve been invited, yes, if not, no. We had to draw the line somewhere, sorry.
Only if you want the wedding planners (we have four) to forbid you from entering the wedding and make you turn around.
Until the DJ gives up or the bus honks its horn — whichever comes first. But we’ve got 5 hours of open bar, so do the maths.

Yes. In the confirmation form you’ll be able to indicate your restrictions (and allergies too).

We promise not to feed you only lettuce.

Yes, but without flash and without getting in the way. Let our photographers take the shots with the best angles — that’s what we’re paying them for.
Nope. The tables have been arranged with love and a bit of sociological strategy. We don’t want a civil war.

Contacts

Questions, dramas or planning to propose yourself?

If you need anything before the big day (confirming the bus, choosing a hotel, or simply panicking with us):

Demel – 610 30 99 20
Thais – 629 26 79 18

For everything else

Logistics, schedules, existential crises or questions on the wedding day — speak to our wedding planner:

Laura – 644 88 20 91

Golden rule:

If on the wedding day you get lost or have any doubts… DO NOT call the brides. Call the Wedding Planner — that’s what we’re paying her for.

See you at the monastery.

Thank you for being here, for coming and for being part of this. Don’t expect a perfect wedding. Get ready to laugh, cry, toast, dance… and live with us the day we’ll never forget. And remember: No perfume, no vapes, no white… loads of giggles and all the love in the world.

16th may 2026

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